Thursday, November 29, 2007
GIRLS SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Who coined the phase understanding women? That may be the most laughable statement I have heard since i was a little girl! What are women understanding about, let me see? How about watching the GAME and not just any game a game like the undefeated Pats and the undefeated Colts, Let's examine two scenarios. Scenario 1. Hey babe the guys and i are going to the bar two watch the game so you don't have to cook i'll just eat some ring at the Bar. Response. i hate it when you come home smelling like smoke and you might wake the baby if you turn the light on,HUUUUUUHHHHHHH i just wish you could like about my feelings before you make plans like this. Response, !@#$%^&*(). Scenario Two. Hey babe the guys are coming over to watch the game. Response. Oh my God, are you serious the neighbors are going to be so pissed. Your friend s are going to make a mess and you know who is going to clean it, plus there was a great movie coning on the Oxygen channel what am i suppose to do go up stairs, i hate watching TV in the bed you are so inconsiderate i wish you would think about my feelings before you make plans like that. Response. !@#$%^&*)(,. GET OFF OF OUR BACKS!!!!!!!!!!!! if taht is the worse thing you have to worry about talk to million women that are in abusive relationship and ask them if they would trade you issues our better yet WHY HE TURNED ABUSIVE. I'm telling you if you have a good man respect his personal time. AND STOP THE DAMN NAGGING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The only thing that naggging does is make his not want come home so it no one faust but yours when that 3 hour game goes to 3 and a half and then 4 hours. " ill have one more" i'm telling you if you think i am lying ask him. You will know how he feels (since you like you know when he is lying any way). Not everything revolves around you ladies and the one who don't understand that don't worry you will have chances because DIVORCE is in you future!!!!!
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can we get a bio of who ya'll are?
Oh my sweet Jesus, no you didn't?????? hahahahahahahahahaaaaaa
Look buddy, with every gender, race or creed there are tools, time, and tenure. Life is a process. You learn what you learn to do better or differently. Doesn't matter if it's a woman (girl in your case), man, baby, teenager....we obtain the tools we need to make changes in our lives. Some people are harder to teach, and others are quicker to learn. This sounds like a maturity thing -not gender.
I am a big fan of counseling. People just don't know how to communicate with one another. And guess what?? When something is not working for you (mainly cause you don't know how to do it) LEARN IT!!! Yes, women, by nature, are a bit more intricately-designed than men, and for that reason, men need to learn to decipher our many words. Woman in turn need to learn how to keep it simple for you less than intricate men - - LOLOLOLOL.
Here's my $0.02..... Ask this woman (smiles) if she would rather you go to the bar or kick it at home. Then describe (lovingly) how important it is for you to have some 'homie' time & that you would like it if she supported your desire to chill with the fellas from time to time. When the nagging starts, you can tell her that you are willing to listen more if she would stop complaining and start asking for what exactly she wants. Try to turn the complaining into direct requests. At the same time, realize that nagging may be her way of telling you that she is not happy with "whatever" so you sho nuff better get to trying to get to the bottom of things.
Maybe the problem is that this so called "man" calls himself faithful after only being faithful for 4 months...or at least he hasn't been caught for 4 months. Don't automatically assume your a woman is nagging if she's accustomed to her man cheating. Imagine waking up, rolling over, looking at your woman and thinking about who knows how many men she's been with since she's been with you. Sure, if she stays she needs to eventually get over it, but this so called "man" needs to also understand that he as NEVER been a man and that you can't become a man overnight. You don't become a man if you simply say you are a man. A man: 1.Meets ALL finanical needs for his family 2.Meets ALL his woman's NEEDS 3.Is not selfish and is considerate of ALL his woman's needs 4.Puts his woman first (no one or nothing is before her...this means a game, a hobby, a friend, a drink, a thought, an ex, absolutely nothing is before her. 5.Respects his woman at ALL times.
Rule of thumb...don't call yourself a changed man cause you get caught. Another piece of advice...if you cheat for 4 years then that means that you have another 4 years to make sure your woman knows she mean's to the world to you. No one's perfect, but don't ever think she owes you, cause you owe her.
So how about you so called men realize you have a good woman before this good woman gets tired of ALL the $h!t you put her through..not just cheating, but the inconsideration you give her, the pushing her aside for games, hobbies, and friends, etc.
Now, don't automatically assume your woman is nagging if she's tired you of seeing you put everything before her. Now you may not see it as this, but have you ever turned her down only to do the same thing with your friends? Have your ever spent more nights doing extracurricular activities than spending time doing some with her? Have you every made predetermined plans with your boys and none with your woman? If you answered "yes" to ANY of these questions then maybe your woman is not nagging and maybe YES you have made the horrible mistake that most black men make by put something or someone before his nubian queen.
And lastly, do you make sure you are pleased in ALL aspects of life, and just forget about your woman? The bottom line...don't stop what you did to get your woman once you got her.
Good words.
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